Decisions

By alp0122 on Fri, 02-24-12, 17:48

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Divorce

Thank you for the replies to my original post. I have dated but have not found anyone to continue to date or to go do things with. Maybe this is because I am so overwhelmed with my finances and which direction to go in to get my life back to normal. I have always had it together but during and after my divorce I made bad decisions due to acting on emotions and in the course lost eveything. I stay with a girlfriend who I pay rent to each mth. However, I need to look for another place to live as their really is not enough space as she has a couple of children. I have always lived on my own but really can't afford much now as I had gotten behind on my bills as I am not making the income I once did. I feel like I have failed and am scared to make any other decisions as I cannot afford to make any other bad decisions but know I need to do something. I am so overwhelmed.. Suggestions please...

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By marcie on Sat, 02-25-12, 18:50

Do not look back and do not be scared, it is a learning process. Try to reflect well before you make any decision, not everything will be a 100%, the main thing is to improve your life and this will not happen overnight. Have faith and believe in God. Take care of yourself. God bless you.

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By April on Sun, 02-26-12, 13:36

Alp, have you looked online for roommates that could rent a place with you & split expenses? Do you have a family member or friend willing to co-sign on a lease option/rental apt., if your credit rating is too low to qualify????

I know your in survival mode so we'll keep kicking ideas around huh.

I know its scary hon, we're here, lean on us.

Choose wisely, treat kindly

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