A Good Laugh

By Penelope on Sun, 02-05-12, 13:02

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Here is one for the record books. My stbx has been around most of the week spending time with our 10 year old son, and trying to act like he still lives at my house (meanwhile his phone is beeping every 5 minutes with text messages from various women). On Friday night he came to look at help with my plumbing issues and he tells me he has "realized a lot of stuff" and "he was wrong to cheat on me" and "he wants us to be a family again" and "he still loves me",etc. He even told me I could "think it over". I didn't even say anything because I believe once a cheater, always a cheater. On Saturday afternoon he came by to take our son out to eat and he left his cell phone on the counter when he went back outside. Curiousity (catches the liar) got the best of me and sure enough there were all these texts back and forth to this woman (I had seen her name before) discussing their "love for each other" and "how happy she has made him". There was one even on the Friday he told me he still loved me saying "she is in his heart always". The best part was when I asked him about it, he calmly said "he really didn't know her", "she lives in London", "it is just some girl he is messing with", "I should just forget about the texts". The actual sad part is he honestly doesn't feel he has done anything wrong which means he hasn't "realized" anything from the last time this happened. Blessings
Penelope

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By Monica5 on Sun, 02-05-12, 13:27

Penelope I may be wrong but I feel the same way you do, I dont trust any man that goes out on his wife with other women. It took me a long time to realize that once he cheats he will keep doing it. I was & still married to lying, abusive, cheating bastard who told me over and over he loved me and would never do this and that but the whole time he was doing it. It took him almost killing me and our unborn child to realize I was done.

Wow he is really stupid, How is he going to try to get back with you and still do the same thing he has been doing. Men can be really slow sometimes. Hes just trying to manipulate you, dont fall for it.

You are in my prayers

Monica

"God give me strength to be strong through all the miss hapes thats going on in my life"

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By MaluLani on Sun, 02-05-12, 13:48

I agree once a cheater always a cheater. You would think he would have had enough sense to put his phone on quiet or delete messages if he was trying to "play u", Glad u are smart & realize he is unlikely to change-but im so sorry you are going through all this. i know its hard to realize your husband has been unfaithful.

Someday I'll fly away.

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By Jayce202 on Mon, 02-06-12, 00:16

seems he didn't know what he had til it was gone:)

Jay

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